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This last week of the year is a limbo space. It’s a little slower, a little gaze toward the next year and a little peaking back at the one we’re leaving behind. The rush of the holidays is done, and there’s a stirring to see where to focus my energy and attention next.

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Reviewing the past year always brings with it some surprises and some forgotten wins; not sure why I forget those so much faster than the fumbles.

This year, I added a quick list of what’s in and what’s out to help guide my planning and inspired actions. I lean toward intentions and habits rather than resolutions or goals.

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Here’s my list –

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In for 2024

  • Choosing peace inside and out
  • Actively looking for the joy and beauty in the small things
  • Engaging my creativity
  • Nourishing deep connection
  • Listening to my body
  • Trusting my energy and intuition
  • Sharing my gifts with others
  • Being intentional with my time and energy

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Out for 2024

  • Complying at the expense of my peace
  • Spending time and energy on people I’m not in alignment with
  • Spending time and energy on things I’m not in alignment with
  • Saying yes when I want to say no
  • Taking my body for granted
  • Internalized ageism

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I love being intentional about what I want to create for the coming year. While it is simply the turn of a page on the calendar, there is something that’s hardwired into our psyche around a new year. The sense of a fresh start, a new beginning, has its roots in the anticipation of a change.

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It allows us to psychologically try on new ways of being and imagine ourselves as a person who says what they mean or a person who trusts her intuition. In doing this pre-paving, the chances for success are increased.

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So take a little time and daydream about how you might enter the next year, not a big hairy goal or a rigid set of rules, but in how you show up or the tone of mental chatter in your head.

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What might those shifts foster? What kind of energetic foundation do you need to lay so you can support it?

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