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Beyond the Pressure to Figure Out Your Purpose: What Your Mind-Body Connection Already Knows About Living Meaningfully

Beyond the Pressure to Figure Out Your Purpose: What Your Mind-Body Connection Already Knows About Living Meaningfully

The Energy of You Volume XX Issue #27 Hi Reader, A few years ago, I was working with a client who’d spent the better part of a decade trying to “find her purpose.” She’d taken career assessments, worked with multiple coaches, and even left a stable job to pursue what she thought was her calling, only to find herself more confused than ever. Her voice carried that mix of longing and frustration I know so well, because I’ve heard it from countless women in my coaching and healing work, and I’ve…

August Tiny Life Experiment: Can 2 Minutes Make a Difference in a Big Block?

August Tiny Life Experiment: Can 2 Minutes Make a Difference in a Big Block?

The Energy of You Volume XX Issue #26 Hi Reader, Each month, I run a little life experiment, a simple, focused way to try something new and see what shifts. These experiments help me create change without pressure or overwhelm. Some of them last a week, others stretch into a full month depending on what I’m exploring. Last month’s experiment was all about boosting joy and movement. I started each day with dancing. I love to dance and don’t do it nearly enough, so I made it easy, a Spotify…

Why We’ve Been Taught to Separate Mind from Body And How It’s Costing Us

Why We’ve Been Taught to Separate Mind from Body And How It’s Costing Us

The Energy of You Volume XX Issue #25 Hi Reader, A few years ago, I sat in a doctor’s office explaining a mix of fatigue, swelling in my feet, unexpected weight gain, and a vague but persistent sense that something was “off.” . My vitals were fine, my overall health was good and I was approaching fifty. I remember the doctor sitting on her stool tilting her head and saying, “Well, eat better and get more exercise.” My mouth dropped open. I had just told her I walked three miles a day, did…

Solar Plexus Check-In: How’s your inner fire?

Solar Plexus Check-In: How’s your inner fire?

The Energy of You Volume XX Issue #24 Hi Reader, I woke up at 4:42 a.m. one day last week, flip flopped around a bit and squished my pillow into a multitude of shapes as if it would magically cradle me back to sleep. My mind is a busy place, and that day was no different. I began thinking about some changes I’m making in my business, the book I’m working on, and a new project; lo and behold, some self-doubt crept in. (Funny how those wee hours when thoughts ping-pong around your brain sprout…

📚Rewriting Your Aging Blueprint: What Epigenetics Really Tells Us

I remember sitting at an Integrative Health & Medicine conference years ago when I first heard the term epigenetics. The idea that we could actually influence how our genes express themselves sparked my curiosity. It felt… hopeful. And, it still does. I’ve been...

A Reader Asked Me This Question…

A Reader Asked Me This Question…

Amidst all the cookouts, parades, and fireworks I entered Logan International airport with tears streaming down my face. I checked two pieces of luggage and boarded a plane to take me three thousand miles away from everything and everyone I knew. That was thirteen years ago. The buildup to that move was long and bumpy. There was a fair amount of second-guessing myself, last-minute decisions by others that shifted the course, and some healthy…

Tired of feeling pulled in every direction?

Tired of feeling pulled in every direction?

The Energy of You Volume XX Issue #21 Hi Reader, I was at a writing retreat a couple of years ago when the instructor asked us to set an intention for the session. Each person shared a goal – edit two chapters, write five thousand words, clarify the theme and plot. When it was my turn I said “My goal is to have a fully fleshed outline, but my intention is to be open and curious as I tune into my deep well of knowledge.” This led to a lively conversation about goals, intentions, and…

🌻  Not Done Yet: Aging Doesn’t Mean Disappearing

🌻 Not Done Yet: Aging Doesn’t Mean Disappearing

The Energy of You Volume XX Issue #18 Hi Reader, I celebrated my 60th birthday a little over a year and a half ago. In the months leading up to it, something shifted—not all at once, but gradually. I kept thinking: This is the beginning of the end. Things are supposed to slow down now. And without realizing it, I started shrinking. A couple of new opportunities came up in my business, but I let them quietly wither. I stopped taking new art classes. I turned down social invitations. Nothing…

⁉️ Wait—She Did What to Their Energy Field?!

The Energy of You Volume XX Issue #17 Hi Reader, I listened as a new healer gushed about how she “tuned in” and healed everyone she encountered. Then she mentioned how exhausted she was. My mouth dropped open. Wait – what?! She was tuning into people’s energy and working on them… without permission? Without feedback? She had no knowledge of what other practices were being used and could have caused a healing crisis. I scanned the room to see if anyone else looked as stunned as I felt. While…